Is it common for the expectant dad to be insensitive to how you feel?

I mean the whole time ive been expecting he has been mean. like i have bad morning sickness and throw up everyday(35weeks)almost and he gets irritated with me, if i dont want the same food as him he gets pissy. my feet get really swollen and he wont mage them o rrub my back. if i need help moving something or getting it i have to wait for a long time like after tv 3 hours later. no , i shouldn't be worring about getting off because im pregnant although its okay for him to have when he want or want head or what not. now i am at the stage of false labor and any pain i have in my stomach he never belives me. im afraid im going to go into labor and he wont believe me. we live (40 miles) in the country, not even cops will come here. cant sleep at night and he tells me to just deal with it. if i order food like 2 bean burritos and a taco he says i dont need all of it yet he orders 5 things. and he can never listen to me talk anymore doesnt want to hear it. am i the wrong one or hm