Ok...let me take a different approach...?

let me do it like this since people proceed to tell me how to live my life and telling me to rethink my plans..im in love with my boyfriend and hes inlove with me. im 19 and still live with my parents. im not ashamed of him i just dont talk to my parents about my personal life. they havent met him yet because we cant be together often in person. he lives 8 hours from me but in about a month 1/2 hes moving here. hes packing his life up and leaing everything he knows behind TO BE WITH ME. i talk about him a lot and im sure my mom knows that me and him are together but i never told her. i plan on moving in with him when he comes here...hes gonna coe down and we're gonna stay in a hotel together and go out looking for places...when we find one we're gonna go back up to here he is living atm to get his stuff and so i can spend a bit of time with his mother....and get to know his nephew as well..seeing as hes really close with his nephew and is kinda like a father figure in his life. he is 24 and we've talked about everything whenn it comes to him moving here and our future. im not worried about him leaving me or anythign i know he wont...but look...i was thinking because shes off friday-sundays i was thinkin maybe if i go to lunch with my mom while my dad is at work (im a major mommas girl) i could talk to her...ask her what she thought if i moved out in about 1-2 months...and talk to her about my bf more. that way we're in a public place and she cant flip out on me so bad...please tell me if this sounds like a decent idea..and dont tell me im makin a mitake and what not...im not iterested in if you guys think im makin a bad mistake or choice..after all this is my life and we all live it differently.